What is MCA?? Why should you join???

Motor Club of America (MCA) was established in 1926 and is available for all residents in the United States and Canada. TVC Matrix is the parent company that manages Motor Club of America and provides the services, answers questions as well as pays those associates and members who take advantage of the business opportunity that the company provides in earning referral and residual matrix income. Motor Club Of America is a membership program established to provide service and protection to the motoring public. It should never be thought of or referred to as insurance even though many benefits of membership are paid as reimbursement after filing of a claim by members.

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My Kids Are Putting Me Through It!!!

I was inspired to blog again by a facebook friend by the name of Tiffany Gibson. I tend to live on fb, but fb and I have a love/hate relationship. As much as we all bitch about it, we don't leave because there is nothing else quite like it. Anyway, my kids are/were putting me through things. My older girls are 19 and 18. My 18 year old became a teen mom almost 3 years ago, and watching her turn into a demon has been heartbreaking. She is angry for no reason, and just doesn't want to listen. My other daughter, has no ambition, and watching her do nothing with her life is hurting me too!! But I had to step out of me, and realize, that they know right from wrong. They know what to do. I have to let them fall, and just be there to encourage them to get up!! I know I'm not the only parent that just wants to make it easier for them, but for some reason, myself included, we have to touch that hot stove. Why is it that we know right for wrong, yet we still pull to the dark side?? How many times do you play Russian Roulette with your life before it's over?? I've often wondered these things. 

Letting Go

Many times, people will tell you that you have to let somethings go in order to move forward. I've thought about this one thing a lot. What I've found in my life is that letting go, is one of the hardest things that a person can do. It's hard to let go of someone who has hurt you to the core. Not because you enjoy the pain that was inflicted, but because you can't let go of how someone you loved hurt you. I find myself singing a Don Henley song called The Heart of The Matter. He has a particular verse that stays with me and has helped me learn to let go. In the song he says, you keep carrying that anger, and it'll eat you up inside! And that's when I had my "aha" moment. I couldn't enjoy my life and what I wanted because I was holding on to things and people, who could have cared less about what I wanted or was doing. Letting go is good for your soul. Memories are great, but when memories haunt you, you need to let them go too!! And for you spiritual people, my grandma always says Let Go, and Let God!!

Signed,
A Free and Happy Person!!

Cheating In The Next Room

When we are young, usually between the ages of 15-21, we are young, wild and carefree. It is usually around that time that we start courtin'. For you young folks, that's called dating. And as a mother of 6 teenagers I see it everyday. Today they are in love with this person and two weeks later they got somebody new. They don't think about using protection and so many young people get STI's or for us old folks, STD's. But the biggest problem about this is that as a parent, and I am guilty of this, I'm not pushing abstinence, I'm pushing being safe and that you are too young to be in a relationship. I'm realizing that for many young adults, they see this as a green light to be with whoever they want, and many times they know to use protection, but they don't. And that's where it gets tricky. I've made this mistake with mine, and I have to teach them about monogamy. Because they become adults who sleep around and develop STI's and usually don't know that they have anything. Monogamy is not a bad thing, sharing your life with one person is really in God's plan. But even adults are stupid. I myself can tell you all that I have cheated. And even I was stupid and had unprotected sex and got an STI. Not many people will tell their business like that. But I want you to come to my blog and when you read what I write, know that I come from the heart. SO WHEN YOU CHEATING IN THE NEXT ROOM, please realize that you not just damaging your relationship, you are damaging your body. And your body is a temple. Happy Reading....."Da Diva"

Sandusky: A Sad State Of Affairs

Truly Ironic Don't Ya Think?

 So here's what we all know, Jerry Sandusky, the former coach for Penn State's football team, has been accused of sexually molesting several young men during his tenure at the highly regarded college. But there is a lot more to the story that the news is just starting to bring to the light. The district attorney who tried and failed to prosecute Jerry Sandusky in 1998 after reports of sexual abuse emerged, has been missing since 2005 and was declared legally dead in July.

 It gets even more interesting though. According to an article in the New York Post, the lawyer that is representing Mr. Sandusky got a teenage girl pregnant over 10 years ago.

  It seems to me that sexual perverts are all over the place in this situation. The fact that so many knew or had ideas that this man was sexually assaulting young boys is truly depressing. So many people that are sexual assault victims never tell for this very reason. It's either swept under the rug, or they are just not believed. We all know of that innocent until proven guilty rule, but honestly he looks about as guilty as O.J. Simpson! This is one story that I will continue to follow. If you want to read more about the Sandusky scandal, just hit the links below:

http://www.nypost.com/p/news/national/sandusky_lawyer_impregnated_teenage_7jKwQMCeBlm9RSdr9zeutK#.TsHV_4wJ_Vc.facebook

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2060027/Ray-Gricar-disappeared-2005-tried-bring-sex-abuse-case-Penn-States-Jerry-Sandusky.html?fb_ref=LikeButtonTop&fb_source=profile_multiline

Lamar and Khloe Odom In Dallas

By now everyone has heard of that good ole trade made by the Lakers and the Mavericks where Mark Cuban acquired Lamar Odom. Just last night The Mavericks held a pre-season game against OKC Thunder in which Lamar played and Khloe was there in attendance. Let me just get this off my chest. I don't like any of the "Kartrashians" and what they are all about. Their fame is frivolous and I think that they know it. Is Dallas going to welcome them and the publicity that will follow? Of course they are, because it brings attention to Dallas. My question is, "Is it worth it? Rumor has it that the couple is already looking for a house. I suggest Pleasant Grove or Oak Cliff!! LOL, but seriously, Khloe seems to be nice, but it doesn't change the fact that she has/is doing the things that she does for fame. It well be interesting to watch. But it really doesn't matter to me cause I'm a Celtics girl!! LMAO

Is Facebook The Devil?

I've been a member of Facebook since May of 2008 or 2009. In that time, I've reconnected with high school friends. I have even met new and fun people. And, I've met some not so nice people. Facebook keeps changing. Yet a new timeline feature will go into effect on Christmas day. And even though we might fuss and complain, we stay. I myself have deleted my account on more then one occasion, yet I come back. Why? I love socializing and I love seeing posts of my friends who go through similar life situations. But I also notice that the younger crowd has gotten hip to Facebook and for me, that's when things really changed. I use to love the fact that my kids didn't like Facebook, they said it was for old people. I remember when people didn't use it for sexual situations. I remember when people posted positive things or funny things to get you through the day. Now, and even I am guilty of this,we post our marital problems, our family problems. We post our dislike for our baby's fathers, when we got some booty, and we post pictures of everything. Is Facebook the devil? I say no, it's just that the devilish people get all the attention. I say we  take it back, lets post positive things. Let's talk about how we can keep each other lifted up!! Then the devilish people will get bored and hopefully leave!