Many times, people will tell you that you have to let somethings go in order to move forward. I've thought about this one thing a lot. What I've found in my life is that letting go, is one of the hardest things that a person can do. It's hard to let go of someone who has hurt you to the core. Not because you enjoy the pain that was inflicted, but because you can't let go of how someone you loved hurt you. I find myself singing a Don Henley song called The Heart of The Matter. He has a particular verse that stays with me and has helped me learn to let go. In the song he says, you keep carrying that anger, and it'll eat you up inside! And that's when I had my "aha" moment. I couldn't enjoy my life and what I wanted because I was holding on to things and people, who could have cared less about what I wanted or was doing. Letting go is good for your soul. Memories are great, but when memories haunt you, you need to let them go too!! And for you spiritual people, my grandma always says Let Go, and Let God!!
Signed,
A Free and Happy Person!!
